Stay Put or Boot Out?

In the January 2010 issue, Jinkee’s gave an exclusive tell-all interview with Yes Magazine about the most sensationalized alleged affair of her husband with actress Krista Ranillo. The said affair cut her like a knife and almost pushed her off the edge.  Still, she chose to hold on to their marriage and try to work their problems out.

Then again, why would Jinkee hand over her husband to these “predatory dames” who think they could elbow the lawful wife out the way without too much trouble?

I think she had carefully considered all her options in allowing her husband back in her life this time. I salute her for her courage during the trying times and her tenacity in trying to reason everything first. Being cheated on has got be the worst thing that a person has to go through!  One feels betrayed over and over. It is good that she did not allow herself to be driven by her emotions only. There are their children to consider plus the fact that lousy husbands are not automatically lousy fathers.

Being a wife myself, I feel that Jinkee did the right thing.  She and Manny should concentrate on rebuilding the trust and start forgiving the past.  Forgiving means that the hurting spouse had accepted what transpired and is ready to move forward without bringing the past into their future as a couple. I believe that oth of them should set their minds on creating new happy memories and just forget the past.